okey so after doing some research on the internet i found out that it's not my gearbox(THANK GOD) the whiny noise on my car comes from the power steering and to fix it the only thing i have to do is replace the o-ring....
I used youtube to see where it's located and it looks very dirty and oily pretty much round all the bolts on the side where it's joined to the head. Could this mean it needs cleaned and a new gasket kit? Could this be where all my oil is going as there doesn't seem to be any other leaks. The block is relatively clean as well